wow. I won't buy DD anything for her first christmas or birthday probably. She'll get things from other family and that's enough at this age. (I found DS didn't really register the gifts till he was 2, and even then just 1-2 things is satisfying for them)
It's lovely giving them things and easy to get carrired away. Just remember that you have to 'up' the ante each year as they expect more and more. I reckon it's best to start very simple (read lazy-arse). Same reason DS had his first birthday party at 3.
didnt think of that, hopefully she wont remember this xmas next year!

we wont be having proper parties till she is old enough to enjoy them herself