Im here!!
Well today we had a breakthrough - Darlie was playing at a friends house and she didn't hit anyone ONCE!!! Instead I could hear her saying "No Emmie, I don't like that!" i was so proud!!!

However, when I was trying to get her to tidy up tonight before bed I said "whatever you haven't packed up I"m going to throw away!" she looks at me and says "thats ok mum, you can throw them away if you want to" very seriously. Oh dear, I'll have to try some more tactics lol