Babies Born January 2008 #9

Karen,

I am truly sorry you felt no support. If what I said was part of it. I apologise sincerly.

HAPPY 6 MONTHS MATEAUZ!!!!!!!!

I'm so over the tension in this forum. Seriously, Karen I think it's extremely unfair of you to judge the people who are in this forum as uncaring. I think you've been extremely rude about what Kate and I said. We were trying to make you feel better and let you know that we understand and obviously you took it the wrong way. I was not trying to "cram crap" down your throat. I was telling you about a couple of stories that seemed to help me deal with the fact that I couldn't breast feed my baby. Thought it would help but obviously not.
I'm not sure whether you are looking to cause conflict in here but your comments have made me not want to read this forum any longer. This is the second time on here that I've noticed you've taken things the wrong way. Last time was in our belly buddies thread. Most of us have been on this forum from when we first found out we were pregnant and never before has there been this horrible tension here. It's awful. I'm so upset by how horrible your comments about what I said are Karen.

I was going to bite my tongue on this one but sorry i cannot....

Karen- I taken extreme offence when you say that the people in this thread are not supportive. Like Nik I have found the ladies to be all supportive here.
I could go on and rant and rave that you have totally misenterpreted what was being said but I wont. It wont do anyone any good
My god, please take the time to browse over previous threads and see that other mothers also had a hard time of it on issues to do with feeding.

Now onto more pleasant stuff

HAPPY 6 MONTHS MATEAUZ. You are just adorable.

Karen -

I am not going to apologise to you for what I wrote because it was written in a well meaning "let's make you feel better" way and if you've taken it the wrong way, well, that's not my problem.

I too have had enough of this forum if I have to come on here and deal with this on a daily basis.

We have NEVER had problems in our thread - this one or our belly buddies, except with YOU taking things the wrong way.

I am extremely upset by your comments and as someone mentioned earlier, there are a LOT of ladies on here who are suffering more than they would ever mention openly and something like this is the last thing they need when this is a place they can come to for comfort.

So please, take your anger elsewhere because I don't need it in my life!

DAMN i just lost i post i wrote grr...

I need to get on here more often, girls remind me hehe, or maybe by the sounds of things i dont want to...

karen i agree you are taking things the complete wrong way and im going to stick up for kate and everyone else because they have been there for me through thick and thin... BF or bottlefed, choice or wasnt able, it doesnt matter at all, our babies are exacly that, BABIES, and they are dependant on us no matter what...
and YES you should be grateful you can BF cuz not everyone can or has it as easy and im not going to go into that, im sure we would be all still BF if it was easy as pie, and BFing isnt for everyone, some bubs are more hungry ect, why keep BFing 'cuz its the right thing to do' !? Do whats best for your bub! if s/he wants to start solids, do it. If they want a bottle, do it. Some people need to relise that motherhood isnt about 'whats so called right' its about what YOUR OWN BABY needs and wants...

ok enough about that, somehow i dont think we need all this crap in our lives lol

Hope everyones bubs are doing great, have quite a few new pics on my facebook, but im sure most of u's have seen them lol

Have started Jay on solids... rice cereal for a few days, then tried him on pumpkin, he LOVES it.

Well i better go and cook some tea!

HAPPY 6MONTHS TO EVERYONE that is now 6months old

I'm not going to comment about what has been said as i havent posted in here in a while BUT i will say that the ladies in thread have always been supportive and said things only to make one feel better and not worse.

Karen - how much more would you like??? honestly matie...we have all tried to be supportive in our own ways and sorry if it hasnt come accross that way but WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT!!!!!!! this is a general baby buddies forum and FF mums cope so much slack, yet they are here being as supportive as if they were popping out their boobs them selves! have you ever thought that maybe they are envious that you are still bf and they are not. I know one mum told me she could still Bf....stop reading to much and misinterprating what people are saying.

I am so ****ed that you say that people in this thread are not supportive.

My little man was in hospital and almost died for god sake and do you know who the hell got me through it....dame right honey the girls in here! I was a mess and didnt have an idea about who I was for 4 weeks yet the girls here were here for me. i am so shocked that you have stated this! I really brings tears to my eyes to think you think like that of these wonderful woman. Most of them are first time mums and had little idea of being a mum yet they were stronger then ever when I needed them.
I think you need to stand on the outside of the little walls you have built up and see life from the otehr side. I have bad days to...yes i have 4 children, 2 with special needs and yet I put a smile on my dial and keep going on. If you are finding that difficult...get some help because in all honesty you are not coming accross as keeping it together. PLEASE PLEASE speak to a specialist if you feel so down and out.


There has never been such tension as there is now in this thread and I apoligise if I have upset anyone in any shape, way or forum but you girls know that im black and white and say what I believe.
And I dont believe ANYONE here is unsupportive AT ALL!

oh Maz hunni you've just brought tears to my eyes :hug: :hug:

:clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: GO MAZ i TOTALLY agree with you, you have to live with what you get given hey!! :) :hug:

well said Maz & Jess

*maz spraying air freshner*

Lets start with a nice clean smelling room.........

Ok now......
sooooo

HAPPY 6 MONTHS MATEAUZ!!!!!!

karen dont even start on that, you know damn right thats not what i meant, for the 50th time, ALL i said was something like, if your due in feb, why be in this thread, i didnt acuse u of hyjacking it, nor did i tell you to leave, i ASKED why u were in this thread... like i said back then, it was like me going into decembers thread and be like, hi im not due for another month but i thought i might pop in here... it was that long ago, why even bring up the past and twist this around onto me, honestly how old are you GROW UP
if your going to be so rude and mean to us all and acuse us of not being supportive then im sorry but it will be good to see the back of you...

sounds good to me

did you fart Maz hehe j/k

**** Jo - YES i did and it STINKS!!!!!!

PMSL Maz thought something smelt funny hehe lucky you got that air freshner

mazzzzz u stiiiink :p heehhehe jk darl

yeah thanks really nice
seeya