You didn't upset me at all, Trishy Just explaining why I chart.
I do get upset when people tell me to relax (which I know you weren't doing at all). Drives me nuts because they are implying that my charting and pondering is the cause of me not getting pregnant, iykwim? Then I think to myself that they probably just don't know what to say to make me feel better or to help so it's the first thing that comes to their head. Kind of like when people say; "Give it time" when someone close to you dies or the "At least..." speech when somone dumps you, LOL.

When all is said and done, I LOVE hearing about people that got preggers pretty quick. I think it's wonderful that they didn't have to experience long term TTC. I was pretty lucky to fall after 12 months with no intervention or help necessary... so I can only imagine how tough it is for those doing IVF and other assisted methods.