Missy- sweety, don't say sorry i agree with you. I told him few times to go do it himself but he turned around and said to me, yeah i do everything myself, wat have i got u for. It's like i don't do anything to him. And that really makes me upset, sometimes i would just cry at nite in bed. He told me that he's not happy & I said to him if ur not happy now, and u want to have a second baby, it will be 20 times worse AND we will end up in divorce so to save all the hassle really let's get a divorce now. He didn't say anything & just walked off. My other friend is going through the same thing with me, but even worse, one time her hubby put his hand near her mouth and her gum was bleeding. I said to her ****ing divorce him, I would leave my hubby if he did that to me, but my hubby would not hurt a fly he's not like that. But one thing for sure is that my friend was right about having kids will make thing worse not better.