Babies Born July 16th - 31st 2008 #4

[Ayapi]

Morning all,

WOW everyone talked up a storm last night got a little lost but hey really don't want to get into any crap just want this forum for some support and friendly advice.

SW - HAPPY BIRTHDAY, I hope you have a wonderful day and your DH and beautiful princess spoil you rotten.

Kell - I did the same routine as you do with Keira yesterday with Isabel and OMIGOD it worked, her last feed was at 10pm, she woke at 8am this morning and only cause we woke her to feed her so that I can do the same routine again today!!! Good luck today with Keira's needles I'm sure she will be fine.

Tannis - I thought we had already organised it like Feeb said for Monday 3rd November at Southbank. I live in Ascot Vale if that helps. SW we are hoping that you and Alyssa are also able to make the meet up.

Well better go and get Isabel feed and back to bed. BBL

[Jewel]

Wholey moleyyyy!
I feel like i've been gone for like 5days I've missed out on all the posts.
I did start to read back but I got so lost once again. Lol

Happy birthday, SW!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope you have a fabulous day and get spoilt!!!!

Tasia - Good luck with the trying already. I hope you guys fall pg really fast and soon.

Tan - I'm pretty good here too, thanks. DP and I usually save thursdays to go out ofr lunch or do the things we need to do without having a little ratbag to try and control in the shops. Lol. Any weight gain is great. GO Ash!!!!!! We're going to get Hayden weighed tomorrow to see how much the piggie has gained.

Kell - Good luck with Keira's needles. I hope they go well. We do the most gifts from Santa dealio too, then like some books or something from us. Santy always brings the fantastic huge pressies though. I have so much trouble tryna work out what to get for Christmas these days.

Mel - That diet you created sounds gooooooood! I lack motivation too. I really need to get off my fat ar$e and lose this podge. YAY! You have a wonderful OB that's so supportive. I have no idea how my OB would go with VBACs. I'd like to hope he'd be supportive. idk though.

*waves* and Pixie, Bear, Zee, Mez, Feeb, Missy, Kristy and everyone else!! Have a great day and I hope your bubbas behave.

Btw, you girls that have Facebook that I haven't added. I'd love to add you. My name on there is Tenny Angel

<3<3<3<3<333333333

[Missy]

Oh Kell hun must have missed the bit about keira's needles, awww good luck and poor little one. Hugs for her.

[somewoman]

Morning All!

sw.. i have no idea what you are talking about.. im pleased with who i am and what colour my hair is.. and no i dont find derogatory comments fun or funny, especially when it had no real context in the statement to begin with. I had nothing to do with what was going on last night. I have no idea why you are singling me out.. but i dont have the time and patience for someone who wants to continually attack me on this forum.

LMAO

ok. here we go.

YOU seem to take issue with most of what I say. You haven't addressed me directly in a LONG time except to tell me off for apparently having a go. Other people seem to have gotten the jokes where you've gotten paranoid. I certainly didn't single you out about ANYTHING - you got paranoid. Plain and simple.

Much of what was said last night was because there was SO MUCH CRAP that was going around that had no place in this thread. It seemed to me that the attack was against someone else who had been singled out - and quite unfairly.

My last one about the blonde was (again) a joke - complete with disclaimer. Indeed, I have blonde friends who are incredibly intelligent. The comment about it BEING a joke was because you seem unable to accept it as a joke when it comes from me. Again - paranoid. You take so much of what I say and turn it into a personal slant against you.

Here's the kicker - you just don't matter that much to me that I would bother making everything about you. Get over it.

[ShootingStar]

Thanks ladies re the needles. She should be fine. Im actually interested to see how i feel re her having the needles. Like with Jesse, his first ones i was in tears.. the rest i was ok.. just being its her first.. who knows. How was everyone else with their 2nd kids? Im going on my own with her, so DH can watch Jesse so yes will be interesting!

Mez.. oh YAY! i hope thats the start for her!! WOOHOO!! Let me know how she goes tonight! Thats so good!

Missy.. you know what i was thinking the other night re the love handles.. you need somewhere to sit them on your hip when you hold them lol! With no hips, they'd slide right off pmsl!

Hello everyone else.. hope youre having a top day!

[Arimeh]

OMG - DD has self settled in her cot.. not once.. but TWICE already today.... hmm.. who has replaced my screaming baby with this placid one.... SW - have you sent Alyssa up to replace Miss M!?!?

[ShootingStar]

Oh i forgot to add.. those cloth bum mummies will be proud.. Keira is in her first ever bumgenius! I thought being since she's done a poo this morning i should be clear of them for the rest of the day lol. Will upload a pic shortly!

Mel.. woohoo!

[Jewel]

YAY MEL! GO GORGEOUS GIRLLLLLLLL!

Kell - Whoohoo.

It's like we have troubles with Telstra and Virgin so we call their help/support lines and why is it that they always claim to have server problems.. It happens every single time. I'm so sick of it. They all need kicks in the teeth.

/end rant

[Arimeh]

Oh i forgot to add.. those cloth bum mummies will be proud.. Keira is in her first ever bumgenius! I thought being since she's done a poo this morning i should be clear of them for the rest of the day lol. Will upload a pic shortly!

Mel.. woohoo!

YAYYYYYYYYYYYYY for cloth!!!!

I'm very impressed!!!!!!!

[Tannis]

OMG you girls know how to talk!

Feeb/Mez: Thats right....baby brain here haha. Where at Southbank, I don't know it very well...Chris does though.

Belle: Hope you and the girls get better soon

SW: Already said it on FB but HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Hope you have a great day!

Kristy: Jayden stirred about 4am too and I ignored him....Hope you get better sleep tonight! I'm on the hunt for some nappies for Ashlea as the huggies don't have boxes in her size. I bought Aldi's brand today, they are ok for Jayden so they should be for Ash too. Can't believe xmas is so close! Santa usually gets Jayden some clothes or a smallish toy...I get credit for the good stuff haha

Mel: Whenever you want to come up will be great for us! I can't wait! Yeah you should take the kids to Tassie, your dad would love that no doubt! YAY for the support from your ob, not many like VBA2C...I gotta get my pap smear on Monday . Woohoo on Mehkelti self settling....I think Ash and Mehkelti have been swapped, she mostly wants me to hold her now to go to sleep!

Missy: You poor thing, what a terrible night! Hope tonight is better for you!

Pix: Yeah it would be expensive that weekend, try and come either before or after that weekend. I know how your nipples feel LOL Ash does it to me!

Kell: Always the way huh? If its not one waking its the other. Ashlea never stirs before 5am and mostly wakes about 6.30/7am which I am more than happy with. GL with Keira's needles! I was fine getting Ashlea's needles but then I was fine with Jayden's 1st needles too....I'm a mean mummy though LOL.

Tenny: You have a ratbag at the shops too? LOL, Jayden used to be so good...now he hates shopping, as soon as we go into the undercover parking he's saying "no mummy, no!" I think I took him shopping too much as a baby haha.

Its just Ash and me today, we dropped J off at day care this morning, picked SIL#1 up went to Aldi's then went to the Warehouse, they have a 9 cube bookshelf I want for J's room, only to be told they didn't get it in, but there was a pallet out the back that may have it on and to call tomorrow to check! Why he couldn't just go and check I don't know. Dropped SIL home then got home by 11am! I have, for the 1st time, almost a whole Thurs at home to do whatever I want without J "helping". I fed A when I got home and she has been sleeping now since 12pm.....I better make the most of it while I can!

[ShootingStar]

Tenny.. oh i hear you! What just annoys me is when you get directed to India and they tell you they cant do anything from their end! Then why take the calls!!!!!!!

Tannis.. oh yep its a conspiracy between my 2 im telling you! lol. Thats great Ash sleeps so well! lol youre just brave Oh enjoy your day! Im going to have Thursdays like that soon when Jess starts preschool! Its going to be so strange!

[Missy]

Ok.

Here we go.

Ive just had the worst possible bad news once again in 3 months. As you all know my Mother is recovering from bowl cancer which was not in the linf glance so she has just been recovering from the big foot and half cut up her guts.

Next my sister had to have her gore stones taken out has she was in incredible pain. Then has had to cancelle her sons (daniel 17) specialist apportment for his swollowing problem that he has had for a while cause of her opp. So has to wait to get him in again. Not to mention that she has a DD 3 months younger then My DD and 2 years or so ago found out she was a diabetic and has to have insulin 3 times a day.

Then my father did his back in again, and has be relying on mum to help him. But she is still also recovering and still very sore.

I mentioned the other day that My sisters hubby was in hospital for lung cancer, well you have 3 parts of a lung, top, middle and bottom, they took the whole right side bottom part out as there was cancer the size of a golf ball. Well My mother just rang and told me that the results have come back and are in the linf glance. John his name is has to have radiation and cemo. We have no idea if he is going to live and My sister is devestated and understandable. I feel her life is just colapsing and there is nothing I can do. Im just so upset for her. My sister is 10 years older then me and we have never been close untill about 6 years ago and are now best friends. How do I help her with what she is going through. Im not good with death/cancer/health problems and tend to just break down and then In return im the one getting help.

So what im going to say now is NOT to hurt or p*ss anyone off I just think I as a person need to do it.

Last night some things were said, by ppl in here INCLUDING MYSELF that was not necessary. I think that we should all take a look at our self and understand that just cause we (your own self) might have good lives/heathly with no depression, where is others that just dont cope as we do. You also have to rmember that we are here to support and give information to eachother in this thread and we seem to be siding with eachother and making things worse. We are going to not agree with ppl and not like what ppl say and think BLA BLA BLA with what some one says but we have to learn to handle it and at least be sivel or maybe leave. I just know that life itself is to short, and im not going to come one here to fight with ppl as I fight with DD, DH Mum dad and really dont need it here.

So in doing that, Unless you really know me, what im about to do next is massave as im not one to back down but am going to bite the bullet, and have a bit of Humility.

I dont like some things that are said and have to understand that life isnt as easy for ppl out there.

Belle, Ok I dont like to hear about your PND as for one I really dont believe or should I say dont understand it as I have never been through it. I am piS*ed at myself for thinking bla bla bla about your moments and know it was wrong. I still dont Understand how some one can be so upset when you have children as they are so precious and just make me so happy. But I guess if you havent been through it then you dont know. SO that was the reason I wasnt replying to those post. SO in saying that. I appoligize and will in furture try and understand.

Lindsay, I too also need to appoligize to you for, yes ganging up on you. I to dont understand how some one who's huddy didnt work for so long (when you use to come to the vid shop he wasnt working)and you were always bragging how much you had spent, I think I added up in two weeks and it came to about $700 or so and wondered how on earth you could spend that much or have that much if no one is working. I thought you were just big noting yourself. For all I knew you should have had that money from heaps ago. I Just get mad at not just you but ppl in general about bragging their got this and this and this. Look I dont make out that Im poor cause to tell you the truth im not, but there is ppl in this thread that do stuggle alot and dont need to hear about how much you spent. I dont exspet you not to tell ppl but maybe just say some thing like "oh went shopping and had a GREAT shop" not nessaraly say how much it cost you. im one to give before I take and have been like that for about 5 years. Anywas just want to say sorry for thinking your were a liar about what you buy and how much you spend. Its really none of my business anyway.

There is nothing wrong with not liking ppl, there will always be ppl we dont get along with but at least we should be sivel in talking to them or meeting them and its more about us its about our kids playing and having a good time. This thread IS for them!!!

So if by chance ive affended anyone else here, please feel free to post (in public so all can see) and ill be happy to talk to you about it. I just know ive been horrible to those two.

Im just over the sh*t as some one else said and having such bad news I wanted to clear the air in what Ive done last night and in the last couple of weeks.

So that was very hard for me, but I feel as im a good person, needed to say that. I do want all our kids to be able to play together weather us mums like eachother or not.

Lets do it for the Kids.

SO im the first one!

[Tannis]

My 2 had a conspiracy thing going on in the 1st few weeks but luckily Ashlea has decided a well rested mumma is a good mumma! Now if only Jayden would come to that conclusion!
It was strange when I went on Maternity leave and I had the whole house to myself when Jayden went to day care....it was great once Ashlea was born though!

[Phteven]

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