Well not sure if ive told you all this but after my BIL's lung cancer op they went to the doc about the cemo. He will be starting it soon but has to have another op to see what is happening with his bowl. Yes Some thing has come up in there too. So he will have that op soon, ( I thought it was Wednesday but not real sure) then I thought it was next Wednesday, but anyway its all happening soon. The doc told Sister that he is going to be real sick, lose his hair and will have it once a month for 4 months then have radiation. Donna came home and looked up on the computer the servival rate for the type of Lung cancer he has and it was only 1 - 15% chance in five years so that really isnt good. Total f*cken sh*t if you ask me.
To make things worse, My sister rang me this morning while I was on my way to take Callum to school and her best friend that has been stuggling with Breast cancer for 5 or so years, Just past away. So we all very sad today, im sad for Nadeine that was her name and for my poor sister who is just going through hell.
Im going to do a blog soon for prayers for my Sister, Sisters friend and BIL if you would all like to read a take part in it.
Ok well bbl
Take care all
Oh yes Kristy that is fine hun providing the funural isnt on then.
NP's Mel....glad you got there and back ok. OMG at that Dr! I read your post in the other section....You're not a bad mother and you know it! If A's bottom is getting too bad can you just give him nappy free time outside for an hr or so that way you can put other cream on if you want and it won't get on the nappy. Stupid Dr.....You're better off talking to MW's I think they understand better. Hope A is ok anyway.
Kell: Great to hear Jesse is better
Pix: Thanks I'd like to hit him sometimes too! How nice of Bears Uncle to put you up in a hotel! I checked out the photos, Beth is just adorable!
SW: Thanks for sending me your number. You got a lot on your plate ATM! I just have to organise my trip to Melb. Do we know where we are meeting yet?
Kristy: Hope your mum recovers ok...how scary re her BP!
Belle: GL with the house, hope you get it. Sometimes I think they like families....less parties!
Missy: OMG your poor sister!! That is terrible! Huge for you and your family
Happy 3mths to Tara, Keira and my beautiful little princess Ashlea!!! Can't believe how quickly its gone! Got Ash weighed today, she is 5.77kgs. She has gained 200g in 2 weeks, which isn't ideal (should be 150g per week) but MW said she is looking great and developing perfectly so there is no need to worry.
Well I'm off, I'm still sick (not too bad now but its annoying), got a headache, SOOO tired and I still have to pack all of our bags, except for Chris's he can do his own haha
Missy - you must have a huge bath!!! We have a tiny little one that I hardly fit into.. pmsl.. ahh.. but then they weren't made for whales were they.... you're such a skinny little thing that its probably easy to fit your whole family in there
Sorry to hear about your family - hope your BIL recovers well. And condolences for your sisters best friend
Belle - dunno about the renting bit - hopefully it won't be too long before you find out if you have gotten the place. We will be going through that process shortly once we sell our house.
Kristy - Geez thats a lot for adopting a child. You would think that they would be giving kids away really, with the amount of misery in the world and people not being able to take care of their kids..... Shame most of these things are run by people who are money hungry..
Tan - thanks babe!!! I hope he gets better. DH doesn't want me to take him to the doc again until his temps reach about 39 or 40 - at the moment he is sitting on 38, and has been all day. Its been a rough morning. And i agree - let Chris pack his own bags. Have a great time !!!!!!
HAPPY 3 MONTHS TO THE THREE GORGEOUS GIRLIES!!!!!!!
Heyyyy!!
I'm sorry I've been MIA lately. Finally I have some time to post. It's like everytime I go to sit down to either watch tv or here, at the computer, someone needs/wants something. DP can't seem to do anything by himself really, so I have to be involved in everything.
So here goes at catching up...
Missy - I'm so so sorry about what's going on with your family. I really do hope everything goes as best as it can with you BILs next op. I'm thinking of you.
Bear - Great to see you again. Wow. They sure chucked you in the deep end, aye. Yeah, just being with our kids makes everything seem to disappear if only for a short time.
Pixie - Yeah, I was so shocked about Haydie being that much. No way would I have guessed that much, he was just under 6kg when we were there last weeks ago. It was a suprise. I'm glad Beth's shots went ok. The time flies by so fast between when they get the needles. I can't believe Haydie is up to getting his next ones in like 2wks.
Kell - Lol. I think worrying heaps is part of our job description too. I know i can't help it. I was actually thinking today and measured his head myself too and she didn't even do it properly anyways. How silly is that. I hope Jesse is better. OMG @ your DH with leaving the cupboards and drawers open aswell as the rubbish on the bench, and I thought my DP was bad, but he's only a smidge of that. Why are they so lazy? Mummy did everything for them, ya reckon?
Tasia - That's great that your sister is going to stay with you. I get freaked out if I'm home alone overnight. It's weird, aye. If your DH doesn't start helping, just do everything for yourself and your DS, so he has to do things for himself. Hope you're feeling better.
Tan - Sounds like you had a great time weekend. I can't believe Chris does things like that to you. I hope you're feeling better and you have a safe trip! Look after yourself... and I wouldn't be packing his bag either. My DP usually expects me to pack his bags, but I already have to do everything else so I make him do it himself that way he can't blame ***** on me if he forgets something. Even though he still tries to blame me anyways. Hahahahaha!!
Mel - I hope your DS is better. Poor little mite. I haven't gotten to your other thread yet, I'll get there though after this. BIG HUGS! anddddd you're not obese!
SW - Good luck with the house moving and all that jazz. I'm only moving across the other side of town and I'm sick of it already. I couldn't even begin to imagine moving to another town, let alone state. YAY for having 6months more off to be with your DD. That's awesome!!!
Kristy - Whoa. The muscle coming away from the bone. OUCCCCCH! I'm glad your mum is going alright. That's scary. Awh. It's cute when they do raspberries. Hehehe.
Belle - Good luck with getting the house.
All your photos are fantastic! Thanks for sharing.
Happy 3mnths Angels!!
As for me..
It's like I feel like I've had no time for me. Everything is for everyone else, etc... so today we're just staying at home and doing NOTHING.
At the moment Elijah is watching Finding Nemo quietly and Haydie is sleeping in his swing. Fingers crossed it stays quiet for a while longer.
Hayden has been a bit whingy lately and just wants to be held. The heat isn't helping either. He's also starting to be a sooky, like if someone else holds him he'll be ok at first but then it's like he realises it's not me and drops his bottom lip and starts to cry. Lol.
I went to a friends Hens night dinner thing on saturday night. It was mostly good. Alot of people didn't turn up, which I think is so wrong, but it shows who your real friends truly are.
Anyways, the bride-to-be's SIL was there. She thinks she's so much higher and better then everyone else. She basically just sat there with her back half turned to another girl, just scoffed her salad down then left cause she had other plans.
I thought she was rude and a super sk@nk to start with, butt she decided to but into this conversation I was having with this other girl about our kids and she goes to me "You have kids?! How old are you?!" I tell her and she's like "I didn't think you were old enough to breed."
We were all stunned.. like who says that?????? The word 'breed' makes me think of animals, especially rabbits, ya know. She said it in the rudest, b!tchiest way.
Maybe I don't look my age, fair enough, but she could have said it nicely and in a different way like, you know what I mean.
Anyways, I'm rambled enough. Sorry it's a long one.
*waves* and to everyone I missed.
<3<3<3
Last edited by Jewel; October 28th, 2008 at 02:44 PM.
Didnt realise i hadnt posted today yet.
Jesse has been in such a mood today. Didnt eat breakfast or lunch. Took his vitamins and some panadol for his runny nose though. Found him falling asleep at his table for lunch so put him in bed. He had a good 2 hours sleep. Woke up and had a fruit bar and a smoothy just now.. but is still in a mood *joy*
sw.. yeh Jesse likes to "pretend" to play xbox with daddy.. but he gets bored after about 10 minutes. Yeh i wouldnt say i was obese.. i just want to tone really. Im the right weight for my height. Thanks for the info though.
Mel.. lol who knows! But yeh i reaaaaaaallly dont want another too soon. Though in saying that Jesse's just going to get older and more independant.. so we'll see hehe yeh i so want one!
Missy.. im sorry to hear about your BIL. FIL has lung cancer (i think i told you).. his hair has thinned on the chemo but he didnt lose it. He did get very sick however and lose alot of weight. We use to compare our belly sizes when i was pregnant! Now he could compare to me again and we'd still be similar. He was given 12 months to live and has gone 9 months past that now.. so anything is possible. Hes also on a different form of treatment now as the chemo was making him too sick.. which is in the form of a tablet that he takes once a day. Some new treatment. Where abouts is your BIL going for treatment? I think FIL goes to Napean. Will be praying for him for you though. Re babies.. well i guess you never know what the future holds hey!
Belle.. good luck with the rental. I have no idea how they choose. Perhaps just a combination of who was first and rental hystories?
Tannis.. omg has it been 3 months already?? Thats nuts! to think another 3 months theyll be on solids!
Ok its only taken me about 2 hours to post this.. anything ive missed ill catch later.. im so sick of hearing whinge!!!!!!!!
God things have been hell here, all sick, Lucas not sleeping much unless held, Laila's gone wild, DH working long hrs, havnt taken my meds for like a week cause ive just forgot... cant wait for our holiday!!!!
Kellxx- We have a WII and I love it (not that I ever get on much), has Mario, sonic, donkey kong etc if thats what your into. I love mario kart, hope to get some more mario games.
Belle- Sorry hun, I will call you tomorrow if I get a chance
Tenny- Only 150mls at a time here and thats forced!
Missy- Im so sorry about your BIL, he will be in our prayers.
Kristy- Hope your mother recovers quickly.. we are also thinking the way you are... no more kids here cause we want to be able to send them to private schooling & go on good holidays etc without a struggle.
oh DH is home, we are meant to be going out for a dinner but I cant be bothered.
Hey folks
Missy - so so sorry, what a difficult time for your family. You're doing so well to hold it all together and I'm sure your sister really appreciates your support. Thoughts and prayers with you all.
Kristy - same for you - your poor mum and wow, with all that you have on your plate, to find time to be able to help her too is just amazing. What a great mum AND great daughter you are.
Mel = bummer about the idiot doctor. There's plenty of them out there. Hope A is feeling better.
Kel - know what you mean - this post has been sitting here since about 5pm. The weather in the mountains was perfect, we went to the Botanic Gardens at Mt Tomah and lots of things were blooming it was lovely. And our babies are growing up soooo fast. I can't believe Beth is nearly 12 weeks, which reminds me: HAPPY THREE MONTH BIRTHDAY TO THE GORGEOUS GIRLS TARA, KIERA AND ASHLEA!
Tenny - gorgeous pics. And what a rude *person* (feel free to insert less flattering description) - I can't believe she said that to you!
SW - hope all the moving and stuff is going well.
Belle - did you get the house? fingers crossed for you hon.
Tan - have a great time in Melbourne! I hope you girls have a great meetup.
Zee -
Today has been full on. Beth has been a lot better but still a bit clingy, and I had to cook dinner for BIL & SIL who are over from the UK. They just left, it was really nice to see them, they are good value. SIL has the same birthday as Beth and they hadn't met her before so they had a good time playing with her. Feel like I've only just stopped after going all day and now its pretty much time to wake DD for her late night feed and go to bed!
Anyway to anyone I missed and hope you all had a good night....
ETA - Great pics Kel - Kiera is sooo gorgeous, and what a beautiful smile!
Last edited by thepixie; October 28th, 2008 at 09:36 PM.
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