Yes, she's my first and was a long time coming. It took us two years but in the end we did it without intervention except for an operation to remove cysts from the ovaries, which may or may not have been the cause. I see you have quite small gaps between your bundles, how have you found that, mentally and physically? I am weighing up the options for number 2 - don't want to leave it to long because I'm already 34, but I'm exhausted just thinking about a toddler AND a newborn...