Relle, Doula works sounds great. I never thought I'd be wanting to be one. How do manage the on call with the 3 kids???? I told DH that I would love to become a Doula in a few years and he said he didn't know how it could be possible with him doing shift work as well. Do you ever have any probs? I feel bad for saying this, but I feel the same way about Jack. I'm enjoying him so much more than I did with Charlee at his age. Maybe he hasn't had enough time to push me to the end like she sometimes does

Veronica, what a clever chicky Avaleigh is.

I know that they say tummy time is very important for babies, but my 2 hate it. I mean Charlize hated it as a baby and so does Jack. I know it's slack and I should be persistant, but most days I just don't even bother trying anymore. I'm not to worried about strenghening up their neck muscles and both of them have been able to hold their head from birth (must have been all that VJ bashing). But is their another reason why they say it's important? Charlee still learnt to roll over with my help when she was older, and she is o.k. now with everything. Should I be persistant with Jack even though Charlee was fine? The difference between the two of them ATM is that Jack isn't wrapped anymore, where as Charlee was up until 7 months of age and that stopped her from rolling over in her sleep while she was younger. Do you think this is a reason it's important for them to have tummy time early on, to encourage them to roll over earlier so if they do during their sleep, they can roll back to avoid SIDS. Sorry for the 1ooo and 1 questions, its just always bothered me and I have never asked a MCHN or anything.