V- I have been really conscious of getting Dh involved, I feel I get all the time with Georgie. DH baths her, with me as his assistant, he also changes some nappies but with this while it is something he can I don't want it to be the only interaction he has with her so he doesn't change all the nappies. DH has cuddle time with Georgie in between beasts at feeding time and if she is still a little awake after a feed then DH has cuddles. It is really hard but I think when she is up to playing that is when DH will have more time with her, at the moment it is all about sleep and feed, which doesn't leave much for Dh.

I really feel for those that are having long stretches of crying, at the moment I'm really lucky that Georgie cries very little, only had 1 night so far of crying for 3 hours but apart from that she only cries to tell me she is awake. She does need to fall asleep most of the time in my arms otherwise she will cry but within 5-10 mins she will be asleep.