Instead of editing, I'll post, because by the time I read the interim posts, I'm sure someone had already started another post!
Nickel - Ruby looks like such a doll! Um, you are right, I don't like Babylove! I started to read it last night and found myself skipping so many sections because they started to read all wrong to me and then decided that the whole book would have to be given a big miss. I didn't actually find anything in it that I liked (will keep looking though) - I don't even like her writing style. It is a shame because I heard people liked it a lot, and it's just a bit prescriptive for my liking. That's what I love about the Sears and Pinky, there are no prescriptions, just philosophies and anecdotes. Thanks for the confirmation about my first impressions!
As for TTC#2, I'm in no hurry, although DP is keen to just let it happen if it does, just like Oscar 'happened' (although it was only a matter of time with him, really - we just went off the pill and did our thing!). Ideally, I'd like to give Oscar and clear 2-2 and a half year run on his own, but DP seems to want one sooner. He has so much developing to do in these years that I want to be completely present for them! But, who knows. I am definitely not making any concerted efforts for #2 this year. DP's funny - wants me to finish my course, but then suggests we push out another kidlet...it wasn't supposed to be part of the strategy!
Boobies on the loose - it did take some getting used to, and I have a DD to E cup...but I sleep with a cloth handy to soak up leakage from the boob he's NOT feeding from (let down is still a b!tch!), but I'm loving it again. Trust me, I never thought I'd sleep out of a bra again, but I took the plunge!