Well... by the time I got there he'd gone back to sleep woohoo I get to have a cuppa afterall... he's not due for a feed for another hour. If I'd gone to Niall immediately and picked him up he would have woken. I don't always let him cry, don't get me wrong, it's just a timely example of how sometimes being a "good enough" mum is possibly better than being a "perfect mum" and trying to be on hand immediately to meet every need instantly... know what i mean? Ah I'm no expert... lord knows what this little one is going to throw at me? So far so good though!