try wrapping him in your pj top or a similar piece of clothing or a blanket, after you've slept with it. It will have your smell all over it them, when dh is feeding, lucas will still smell you...

we have the prob that bub wont take ebm thru a bottle, only formula. I think she associates ebm with mummy and boobies. so i only let dh feed her formula, that way if i need to go out, he'll be able to give her a bottle. She wont take ebm from either of u thru a bottle...so frustrating... hope your luck chaanges soon!!