Tanya - Don't feel bad for wanting time to yourself, it is quite a common feeling. Just this morning I was having a shower and a good cry (feeling like I have no time to myself and so much to do) and dh brought Nathan in, he was meant to be sleeping but kept waking and I just thought take him away from me, It doesn't mean I don't love him, it's just I need a break.
Are you in the room when dh tries to feed Lucas, if so maybe he can still smell you and won't take it from dh. You may just have to leave them alone for a while. If he's really hungry he will learn to take it from dh. It is just a matter of persistence. Good luck.
Nicole -it's great Nixon is doing so well with his feeds. I can't wait for that to happen.