Celsie - about jobs just for DH. I love your idea about DH having a 'job' or some kind of routine thing to help out. We share most things but I think I may suggest the routine thing to allow DH and DD to spend some quality time together. I suppose it opens up a little 'me' time as well.

Rylansmum - hello and welcome. Brianna wasn't born with a birthmark but developed what they call a strawberry mark on her bottom. It is only small, but red and raised. Apparently these marks are supposed to disappear by about 2 yrs of age. Ashlyns loveheart sounds gorgeous.
Must say I'm jeolous your DP has gone to see John Butler Trio. I'm listening to Josh Pyke at the moment on 'Sunrise'. His album is fantastic!

Brianna is asleep in my lap - had a frustrating weekend as she only wanted to catnap during the day. Nights are fine as she usually goes to bed at 7-8pm, wakes for a feed anywhere from 1am-3, then either sleeps through to 6am or wakes for another feed between the 1 and 6am feed. I consider getting up once to twice pretty decent compared to what some others deal with. Are your bubs sleeping during the day? Catnapping? Can you get anything done? I was hoping to go back to the gym soon but Brianna needs to be able to sleep for about an hour during the morning for me to be able to do this.