Babies Born March 16th ~ 31st 2008 #3

[AndiE]

Hi all,

Sorry I've been MIA - have had just over a week away with the family, which was lovely!

Cam's got his first "official" snotty nose. And man, is it snotty! Guess it was going to happen sooner or later, and he seems to be ok otherwise. As a result, I've got a scratchy throat, but I've got my fingers crossed it doesn't get worse.

Mel - have been thinking of you (even though I haven't been in touch). Cam's not too bad re: clingyness. Sometimes he gets sooky if I'm out of eyesight, but he's yet to become my shadow and/or hate me out of his sight. But he starts childcare on the 17th, so it could all change First birthdays have come round all too soon - we're having a party on the 14th. Am trying to keep it as simple (read: "pain free for Andie") as possible, so doing a sausage sizzle with a few other nibbles and a cake. Have invited our closer friends and their kids (our families are interstate so can't come up, though they wish otherwise), so potentially 10 adults and 8 kids.

Nic - Yay for Dusty walking! They're now into little boys/girls, not babies, aren't they. How's work going? I've not got less than 4 weeks till I'm back . I went in to meet my director recently and she gives me the impression I'll be supported in the workplace but the proof will be in the pudding, so to speak. My workplace has undergone an enormous change in the past 12 months, so I think I'm as anxious about that as anything. I'm also dealing with a new director and asst director - so I kinda feel like I have to prove myself. And would you believe ... I've been called up for jury duty from April 20!!!! What timing. I'm asking to be excused on the grounds i'm still breastfeeding and I have no carer for Cam on Mon and Fri. When you don't have family near you, it can make short-notice child care options bloody hard - and I can hardly reserve a place for Cam at childcare "in case" I have to put him in. What a hassle.

CM - I agree about trying to read a paper etc. Cam's certainly into everything, and it never fails to astound me how babies completely ignore their toys for mundane stuff (mundane to adults ...) like powerpoints and TV cabinets. Someone needs to produce a toy for a 12-month old that includes powerpoint switches, cupboard doors and on/off buttons! Hope you've been keeping really well and not getting toooo tired.

Luey - Canada sounds exciting! I've flown a couple of times with Cam, and luckily he's always been a champ. For my 2c worth, take lots of food/nibbles/drinks for him plus any toys/comforters that help keep him happy. I'd also advise taking some nurafen/nasal spray etc in case he needs it. My doc once told me that if she flew long haul with a bub, she'd give them a mild sedative - whatever works for bub and parents, I guess! Am glad to hear you're feeling more relaxed etc, even if you're not necessarily happy with the PND opinion. Being a first time mum is such a learning curve, isn't it - would be much easier without our hormones bouncing around though!

Bec - you sound busy! At the risk of sounding completely naive, what is a GDUNH ... I'm sure it's as obvious as the nose on my face, but I'm pulling a blank!

Jo - how are you going hun, is your hubby still working such long days. I can only imagine how hard that would be on you. How's Isabella's bum crawling coming along? And how's Riley going?

Hi to everyone else - hope all our expectant mums are keeping really well. I see on FB that Laura is having a little girl - are you other gals planning to find out (and announce) what you're having?

I'd better do some jobs while Cam is asleep ... I won't know myself when he's in childcare for those two weeks (Tue/Wed/Thu) before I go back to work. Not that I plan to leave him there for full days, I'll build up to it. But even when he's there a few hours ... imagine it. I might be able to read a book Nah, I'm just hoping it gives us a chance to work out our morning routine, and Cam a chance to get familiar with going etc. Hopefully it will all work out - I'm sure it will.

Cheers, Andie

[catherinemoses]

Someone needs to produce a toy for a 12-month old that includes powerpoint switches, cupboard doors and on/off buttons!

It's genius! The only problem is they would still not play with it cos it's not the real deal!!!

This pg is going really well. We had our 20 wk scan and everything looks normal, right sizes/measurements etc. We didn't find out what we are having. I like surprises!

I'm so proud of myself. I have been staying on top of the dishes...that's a very big deal for me!!! Today in between playing with Flynn and listening to him scream I have pretty well sorted out the spare/junk room. I'm a bit excited about that cos I'm totally motivated to do some scrapbooking and I have a desk in there which has been covered in clutter...so yay!

Yesterday I had a pedicure. My sister got it for me for my birthday which is coming up. It had a parafin treatment with it which was just divine!!! It was so nice. If you are in need of a treat I can definitely recommend it!

:hugs: Luey. I'm so proud of you for sharing about your PND diagnosis. I'm glad you are feeling better on the medication. Canada sounds just lovely!

Thanks for the hug Nic. I don't think Flynn has any idea that there is a new person coming to invade his space. I think mainly he is just headstrong! I should be allowed to do this and it's not fair that you won't let me! Some days it is fine and I can totally handle it...other days...Yikes! He cracked it the other ay and in the end I had to just put him in his bed and leave him to scream. That sounds horrible but I'd tried everything. Food, playing with him, cuddles, panadol, ignoring him, more food, trying to put him down for a nap, more cuddles etc...I think he screamed and carried on for about 2 or 3 minutes and then fell asleep. I was at such a loss for what to do that I called DH, who was absolutely useless being at work!!! It is a trying time but it's not all bad!!

[*becstar*]

I'm back as promised.

Newbies, Mum2willie and doubletrouble where are you?? I hope we haven't made you feel unwelcome. i know at times it may seem we miss you out but honestly (and I'm sure I speak for all here) we don't mean to. Force of habit and just running short in time we may overlook you only because we've grown to be such a tight-knit group. We'd love to get to know you more and have you post more , please do pass on your emails so we can share the beautiful 1st birthday pics.

As I said things here are busy.Again Hayley, you are my hero Ben is about to sign up for Auskick tomorrow, so there goes my only free day, Friday *sigh*. It's busy but good too. It's nice to not be so confined to the house and I really feel proud watching the kids do their own thing. Even though they drive me nuts at home sometimes all in all we are raising wonderful children who are going to be a real asset to society. Tooting my own horn here, lol. They behave 98% of the time in public and compared to some monsters I've seen out lately.....they are angels.

Laura, congrats on your little girl!! How exciting! how are you feeling re the pregnancy now? Please know anytime you need to talk i'm am here, PM me, FB, MSN, txt, what ever

Luey, well done on your confession. Surely you know such a diagnoses holds no stigma here though? I'm glad you are feeling better, you really have had a rough run with E....any subsequent bubs will be a walk in the park!! Good luck for Canada too, how exciting!! Is it just a holiday?? Oh and yes, it's freezing here today...brrrrrrr...we need to organise some wood for the fire ASAP!!!

Catherine, I'm glad to hear you all so are doing well, and that all seems well with bubs. On the tantrums.....Jake is really into this too, although his only last a couple minutes tops. Maybe he knows I'm so practiced at them, lol. It could be the pregnancy too....but keep talking to him about it, might seem silly but it can't hurt. Get him to rub your belly and be 'gentle'. Being gentle mgiht help you later on when bubs arrives

Ooooh that reminds me, I am MEGA clucky ATM, lol, I have a new nephew!! My BIL's wife gave birth just a couple weeks ago to a boy. I'm so excited cos I get NB cuddles this weekend!! EEEEEEEk!! It's great cos i've had the last 3 babies in the family so it's someone elses turn!!!

Hayley, how are you going? I do love the knitted set from Shannon, and Ari is so gorgeous in it!! I take joy from nappies/special clothing at the moment too

Macca....how about you and Will and bubs?? what's news with you??

Andie, I love your idea about a toy, although like Catherine said if it's not authentic it's not good enough!! I'm sure Cam will star at daycare. I know it's hard but having those few weeks with him in care and you at home will help you feel more secure about leaving him when you do start work.

Mel, how are you going with the separation?? All I can suggest in the short term is baby wearing. Saves my sanity most nights at arsenic hour, lol. Maybe a Mei Tai in a back carry?? Jake loves this while I'm getting tea ready and he's grumpy. And in a back carry they can't touch things, lol.

Jo you are a superwoman!! honestly to do it on your own so much you are amazing!! and after all the bank stress.....you deserve a medal

Nic......I'll speak to you soon I hope, I'm so glad all has gone well with your return to work. It's ok to call and check. I'm relieved you feel better about it too.

Leesa, how are you doing too?? When can we see pics of Maddi's b'day?? PM someone your email so we can add you

Awwww I wish we could all have any more babies together. I'd love to go through it all with you all again, I can't say how many times you all have saved my sanity over the last 21 or so months. I truly feel I have made friends for life here. Can you tell how clucky I am?? lucky I have that IUD in place and DH won't budge, lol.

I'm sorry for anyone I missed, Nina springs to mind...who else??

Much love to all....who's the next birthday?? James and then Ari??

xxx

[meow]

I just saw this thread and had a quick read to see how all the babies are going- they grow up so fast!!!!

It's been a very busy sleepless year for us. Our son is an absolute delight and busy, busy. He's been toddling for a few weeks now and slowly getting further and further. Very cute to watch. He also loves talking and can say a few words (hot, hat, ow, dad) and tries to copy most of what we say. He's obsessed with transport vehicles, books, pots & pans and baby dolls.

Sleeping isn't his strong skill and he's still rarely slept for 5 or more hours. Mostly 3 to 4 hourly wake ups... the past week has been about 2 hourly wake ups so we're very tired. I did think he would be sleeping better as we approach his first birthday so I keep hoping it'll come soon!! I think he may be teething again now.

All the best to you all- enjoy the first birthday celebrations!! We're having a little extended family party the weekend before his birthday, then cake at playgroup on the day, a family weekend away to the zoo & beach for us the celebrate surviving the year then a party with mother's group the week after! Phew!

[*becstar*]

Hi Ren!!! so nice of you to pop in You sound like you are going to be super busy with celebrations!!

I remembered I forgot allboys!! how are you and scout going??

Just a pop in to say Jake had his first haircut last week, not really necessary for length etc but it was very uneven at the front and hanging over his ears so now the deed has been done! He has dropped back to around 3 Bf a day, morning, after lunch and bedtime, and mostly he has one during the night though most often this is early morning which counts as his morning BF. I am introducing cows milk soon as his after lunch drink.....then we will only BF at night and in the mornings. We have 8 days to go until the big 1.......eeek!

oh and of course....

Happy Birthday James!!!

Congratulations Mel for making it through a tough year. James you have given Mummy a very educational time

xxx

[melbell45]

hi girls,

thanks Bec and i will say it too, Happy 1st Birthday to my little man ! wow it has gone so quick and has been a tough year in many ways but we made it through ! we are having his party on sunday so will email some pics from that.

can you girls remind me when your little ones are one, or if someone wants to post the birth list that would be great, anyone else's cherubs one this week ?

Melinda

[kelebek]

JAMES

It's hard to believe that this time last year we were pregnant (or cradling a newborn).

D's birthday is 18 so Wed next week and I am stoked as I got the day off so all good.