Aww Thanks Deb. I have had a rotten headache since last Thursday and wasn't sure if it was still this damn cold. I spoke with a solicitor this afternoon and she answered most of my questions and my headache sort of lifted. I mean it's still there dull, but no longer throbbing so that's got to be a good thing.

There are alot of things this dad should handle, unfortunately he simply chooses not to. At the end of the day I think I'd rather Mark be the boys roll model as opposed to Shane. He's not a bad person or anything, he just has no idea on how to be a loving, caring, supportive father (or partner for that matter), His father never had an idea either so I can see where he got it from.