Lucy goes even further with DP... won't give him kisses or cuddles and leaves him hanging for any kind of attention sometimes! Makes him work for it, clever girl! But not for me unless she's particularly cross, and even then halfway through a tantrum all she asks for is a cuddle from Mummy.

kazaraz - Mia is trying to get your attention and she's a smart cookie - she knows what pushes your buttons. I've heard it's quite common for a toddler to not want to toilet train while they have a younger sibling that is in nappies (and getting heaps of attention with nappy changing - in your toddler's opinion anyway!). It'll pass, apparently. I can't believe your baby is nearly one as well!!