No more bubbas planned for this household. We are both happy with two, had only ever discussed having two, and I had only ever visualised having two boys, so even when i was getting (and sometimes still do) don't you want a girl? question i am happy to say Nope, I am fine how things are! If i could get them to have a slight behavour or attitude adjustment occassionally it wouldn't go astray but......oh well, you take the good with the bad....lol.

Kaz- i hope the cramping settled for you, and as you said give it another week, and wait to see. A friend of mine said that she didn't notice much difference from 2 to 3 kids in regards to more work etc, so I am sure when the time comes you will adapt just fine. And realistically, once pg you still have another 8/9 months for the older kids to change, develop and be a little more independant.

tata for now