Karina -yep coslept with Xander although we never planned it, We have always put both kids to sleep in their own beds and brought them in with us when they woke so I don't think it ever affected going to sleep. We do gentle sleeping though so he was always either feed, patted or just sat with until he went to sleep and has now chosen to go to sleep by himself after we read to him. He does very occassionally come into our bed during the night after a bad dream, it's a bit crowded now :-) Xander was a frequent waker/feeder but I think this was just him and we started cosleeping so I could cope.

Ariya usually goes between me and a bed rail and sometimes between me and DH which is why we have the pillow.

Sasha - just trying to work out which one to use next.