I mainly stick to BBH. cheap and easy.

I do have some home made ones and will prefolds with fleece covers too.

With wipes you can make your own as well, i cant remember what with but i am going to look into making mine as well, will prob be using one side flanette and one side terry towlling from spot light (which in thinner then normal terry)

No sure about what to use as the solution, have you looked at the nappy cino site i am sure that will have suggestions