We also dont have an arsenic hour Amelie is pretty good at this time and is in bed by 7pm but she does now cry a little when she goes in her cot but doesnt take to long to settle with some music. We then feed at 10:30pm and most nights she goes through till 7am but waking at 4am a bit but hoping the rice creal will eliminate this.
My Dh is away for then next two nights then home for thursday then flys to Melbourne for the footy so we will be on our own till Sunday. I am dreading it sooo much that I think it makes it worse I shouldnt think about it so much. I know we will be fine and we are busy during the day it is just the nights when I look forward to him coming home.