Jess - It will change. It has to. Like I said, don't make me come round there - I'll hit him upside the head with a wooden spoon! You're not a single mum, so if he can't take responsibility for the kids and look after them for a bit ~responsibly~ or the house, which is your family's HOME, then he can pay for someone else to do it so you have time for #1 yourself, and #2 you and him as a couple and #3 your kids, and then the home (which is way down the list of priorities really - you're more important!). Dont let him let you crash and burn, honey! Just because you managed before doesn't mean you can now, and you shouldn't have to.

Abb & I didn't get to meet up. We both had stuff on, and she didn't get to Melbourne till late coz of car trouble.
I had a get-together this morning with all the mums AND dads from our playgroup. It was pretty chaotic, we were supposed to go for a BBQ at a park but the weather in Melbs is crap, so we all ended up at a huge cafe. I think there were 20 of us plus babies. The cafe did well to manage it, but they still burnt my toast (always happens to me!). We didn't get any sleep last night, and DS was a right little monster, but turned into the sweetest angel as soon as we arrived and made me look like a fool for complaining! Nobody believes me... but at least DP was there to verify my tales today!