Sass- sorry to hear you havent been feeling urself. Good luck with the AD... i'm sure if i spoke to my GP i'd be put on them too... not handling things as well as i hoped but refuse to go on AD not sure why maybe it has something to do with my feelings of failing as a mum... i know stupid hey... i guess i always tried to prove everyone wrong with DS... I was consistently told i wouldnt handle being a young mum and that i'd need help etc etc... so i did the opposite and did EVERYTHING myself... My own fault i guess... Good you've made that 1st step and gotten some help... i have issues asking for help which i guess half the reason why DP is a lazy **** when it comes to helping our tith the kids. again my fault for actling like a superwoman... i have fallen behind in chores and somedays barely get out of my PJ's before he gets home. he mentioned the otherday that i'm a "bit all over the place" i guess that 1st step isnt an easy one for me... wow makes me feel bad admiting that i may have some issues.... kinda helps that i can talk about things on here... i have an appointment with my GP on dec 28th for my last gardisil so will hopefuly find the strength to talk about things then. Doesnt help that DP wouldnt be that supportive if i was diagnosed with PND...
Abb and NaNa- sounds like you both enjoyed your time out without bubs... wish i could get some time for just me...
Nikki- Yeah we tried having a chrissy at our house after jordan was born... all yr it was Yeah yeah then november came and she was planning her christmas already... this yr we were doing the same and she started saying that she'd do the food and i could just do the cleaning up here... WTF... She always *****es about our house cos she's a clean freak... we have a small house and have like a lounge/dining which is like the main room and then 3 bedrooms... We have the computer in that room also so its very cluttered... If i had more room it wouldnt look so bad... Her house is HUGE 4 bedrooms formal lounge, kitchen/dining is the size of our house. plus a family room. she has minimal furniture and only 2 people living there of couse her house will look cleaner mine would to if i could spread out the furniture... Now i just go there everything is done we open presents, eat and leave... i hate staying longer then needed... she gets to me... lol...
Another one here with a bubs that wants to eat constantly... when i go shopping and she sees the jars of food she screams cos she wants one... if anyone eats or drinks she cries for food... At the moment she's loving nectrines (spl) and peaches... i put them in the chewy net and she devours them.
NaNa- also thinking of getting a play pen but not sure how much room i can spare to have it set up.. i have so many things for her that we dont use much... JJ, swing, rocker, portacot. i feel like i'm setting the stuff up, packing it away... the house is just too small for everything... after chrissy i need to buy some new furniture, de clutter and organise more... by more storage friendly furniture...
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