Ohhh and I forgot to say earlier that:

I have finally asked for some help. I joined the Reflux Infants Support Association online (thanks Kim), and I have had so much overwhelming response to my situation and I only posted last night! Finally I feel like I am not alone and what I am feeling is very very normal. Hopefully now I will start to feel better and get some ideas off people in order to try to feed my child! Hardest job in the world trying to feed a baby who won't feed!!!!

Oh and Kim were you asking if Lachie is still throwing up, yep heaps, meds don't seem to be working yet, inclined to ring paed and ask how long it takes to kick in!