leanne ~ No absolutely Not i do not think you are a part time mum how friggin rude to say that to anybody as parents we do what we have to do to make a life for our children in regards to having a roof over ones head and food in their tummy's i HAD to work when my elder 2 were little so i know only to well what your going through it is hard yakker and your doing a fab job don't let anyone tell you other wise