thanks a lot for sharing Kim, yes we had touched on anxiety before but very briefly. I hve made my DH and sister aware and will soon be making my GP aware, they are the only people who know we are ttc again so i am trying to muster up some support when and if its needed. Thanks for the encouragement.

I actually thought that Archie was kinda on the short side til he was playing with a little boy at the playground who he was taller than and the grandma told me he was 19 months old (he is aparently short though), he should be on the tall side as i am 5 foot 10 and DH is only a teeny bit shorter than me. I didn't officially weigh Archie (i was too lazy to strip him off, or do the calculations after weighing him fully dresesed!) I did weigh him on our scales though and he was 12 kilos, he feels a lot heavier!

i have 12 Pea Pod Pocket nappies, 2 mother ease covers and 6 bamboo boosters to sell if anyone is interested. Nappies hardly used, covers and boosters never used.