leanne - i would get a second opinion to, as Christine said, it wont hurt.

kim - huge hugs sweet, hope you can get some much needed rest today. Sounds like some time of work will be really beneficial for atm.

Jay's work has hugely slowed down this past few weeks and no one knows when or if it will pick up again. He was getting 50 plus hours a week, now he is only getting 3 or four 8 hour days a week, definately not nearly enough to pay the bills and eat and drive....Anyway, its only money, we have a roof over our heads and we have each other, been here before and know we will survive again. Might check out ebay and work out what i have to do to become a seller...