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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Aug 2006
    Sydney, New South Wales
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    I have a friend who jokes around about us running away together......

    Well things have gotten worse in the last week. Persistent txt messages and even a confession that he is falling for me. It's doing my head in. I have stipulated that nothing is ever going to happen in that department, and it would not fix the problem anyway. This guy is a dear friend and I care for him dearly but that's it. How do I help and support him in trying to get his marriage back on track without either falling for him and making a fool out of myself, or getting into a situation I will regret later.
    Should I back off and spend some time away for a bit?
    Oh guys I am so confused, I did not know where else to ask?

    I have mentioned it to my DH..... he understands, but I don't think he truly understands how I feel about this man.

    I feel flattered that someone thinks I am an amazing women, but it's just the beginning of a lot of trouble isn't it?

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2004
    WA y WA y A WAy
    2,161

    thats a hard one leanne it sounds like he looking for an out of his situation by dragging you in i'd say distance your self and do it quick before it destroys your realationship with your DH i 'd say this situation is nothing but trouble what does your DH say about it all

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Aug 2006
    Sydney, New South Wales
    915

    he trusts me totally and utterly.
    I don't trust myself.
    But right now I have just drunk a whole bottle of red I don't know what I am thinking...... Tomorrow will be a headache I believe!

  4. #4
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    Jul 2006
    1,055

    Elissa: Hows your throat hun? I had it a couple of weeks ago and ended in really bad sinus (which I never get!). I was sick for half my time in Melb...still had a great time though. It was SIL's idea to say it, I didn't know she was going to say it...but if I had of I would have taken a photo, it was priceless!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Sydney NSW
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    Leanne I would back out of the situation FAST!! I hope you don't feel too bad this morning!

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2005
    Limestone Coast, SA
    2,671

    leanne - hope your headd isnt too bad this morning. I agree with the girls, distance yourself right now or you are all headed for trouble and heartache. He has put you in a really hard situation, but don't feel bad about distancing yourself, you have to put you and your family first, and that means getting rid of this 'friend' for a while at least.

    tania - throat is pretty darn sore, bummer that you had it for your holiday, i reckon Arch has had this all week too.

    Was supposed to be going to playgroup this morning but not sure if i should seeing as Archie and I seem to have some sort of virus, so looks like a boring day in store for us. Pay day tomorrow thank goodness!! There is only so far you can stretch 1 pay and it has been stretched to the max while we have been up here. We are going to stay at my mums place sat night, cant wait to see her and my sisters, apparently my sister has a decent sized bump now, last time i saw her i couldn't even tell she was pregnant. We are going to the xmas parade sat morning, Arch loves the pipe bands so it will be great.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Aug 2006
    Sydney, New South Wales
    915

    Thanks girls.
    Head is fine.
    Stomach is a little queasy.
    :O)

    Thanks again.

  8. #8
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    Oct 2004
    WA y WA y A WAy
    2,161

    leanne you poor poppet

    i just booked Ryan in for his first swinmming lesson ( how slack i'm i ) it is a private swim school indoor heated pool alright

    Elissa ~ hope your feeling better soon
    any way i'm off to bed i'm knackered

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Aug 2006
    Sydney, New South Wales
    915

    My head is NOT FINE today - I can't stop it spinning around and thinking about everything that is going on.
    How do I clear it?