I agree. Every baby is different and everyone "mothers" in a different way and that is perfectly ok. you cant do everything from a book.

Someone gave me the BEST advice. "Do what works". Whatever that may be. As long as you are happy, then so is she.

If you arent busy, let her sleep on you. And keep trying every now and then to put her down. If not, spend the day snuggling. She will grow up before you know it and you will miss those free unbribed cuddles