Mel - I love having girls and honestly wouldn't mind another girl but I know DH desperately would love a boy & a boy would be a nice change for me too, but I don't know what to do with a boy ha ha and I have absolutely no boy stuff, suppose it is an excuse to go shopping, but at the moment I have been buying all neutral colours, which I find boring but its what I have to do if I want a surprise. I'm not looking forward to being exhausted, especially in the first few weeks, it will be hard coz I will still have to get up and get DD1 ready for school etc. I just hope Lara and the bub sleep at the same time during the day so I can get some sort of rest, bet it wont happen though.