AJP - spencers are for sale in the children's underwear department - you buy baby ones near where the singlets and socks are, i have bought some for tiny bilby in Target and also Best & Less. They have the envelope neck too, which makes change time a whole lot quicker for a bub who hates things over their head (e.g screams the house down at change time!!!). These envelope neckline are Wonderful for reducing that situation with us!

Have tried twice now, mixing one tablespoon of my breastmilk with one tspn of organic rice cereal, tiny bilby is not really going for it, looks at me suspiciously and it just sits on her tongue, only way i can get her to swallow it, is to push the dummy in.

we are still feeding ever two hours and sometimes every four hours at night if i'm lucky

VickyFinch - i am so sorry to hear you are having awful court battles - i assume with an ex?