Oh Vicky, i wish i could say or do something to help! my girlfriend has 8 children and is divorced, 6 of the kids are still dependant and all he has to pay is $20 a month!! thats all the child support he has to pay cos he's on "disability". what a load of crap.
the system is absolutely f**ked, it favours the wrong kind of people etc etc..i'm sure i'm preaching to the choir!