Thanks guys, feeling better today. we just visited our friends who have a 4yo, twin 2yo's and a 9 month old. OMG is all i can say. made me feel better about just having the one!
I'm so sick of feeling guilty for that fact that evie's not really on solids and she doesnt sleep through the night. i cant force her to do either of those things and i know they'll happen in time but i feel like i missed 'Feed your baby solids and get them to sleep at night 101' - i must have been out having a beer that day
BTW Tried the nail file (I have several - they are Tommee Tippee if anyone is looking for them) and today i just sat with her and cut them so low. she too watches while i cut them - which is nice for me. so obviously i attended 'cutting baby nails 101'