awww Jols *hugs* I hope you get some "relax" time.

Kim, its really hard, I had such a hard time being on my own with Matilda. Matilda is active. Sounds like Chelsea is too, this is when I had to increase her time at day care so I could rest and then use the days she was home with activities like play group (as much as I didn't like it, it kept her busy), and I started going to the park and just pushing her on the swing to relax... that was my relax time. I answered your other post about bored babies and I can related totally... I found out that Matilda was into more than I thought..... I would strip her down & do painting in nappies with cotton buds and food colouring. Then bath, digging in dirt and sand boxes and then bath... etc etc.
Swimming. Trying to come up with things that won't stress your body too much.

ETA: Sorry no more from me tonight, had an absolute shocker here myself, including me disolving & screaming at both girls "LEAVE ME ALONE FOR 5 MINUTES!!!" bleck... its been a full on day. Must be the wind... dunno.