thanks guys, wasnt them on the phone last night, DH spoke to his mum today to sort things out.
told her
yes he also finds his dad diffecult, she doesnt know how to address that with him (he will make a mountain out of a mole hill,) i understand we all have bad traits taht we cant change, but he can make more of an effort to change certain things he says, hes the srot of person who expects people to get him things instead of getting it himself, i feel like he's the percious one here!
she understands we want some time alone
understands we will no longer have the room to accomodate them
understands im not blocking them out!!
understand that it best for my mum to look after sophie while having baby, its just not practical to get them to drive 4 hours
still worried WTF...
so over family ****, respect our wishes, she works with PND women and she fishing to see if i have it and i DONT
fark have a head ache now!
Jols i find that incredibly rude and inappropriate. if thats how they want to be then fine, but don't let it ruin your day. i'm sure they'll come around and realise they were out of line if you mean as much to them as they obviously do to you. Big hugs tho, IL-relations sure can be tricky
Still here, still having pains but nothing to show for it...blah blah blah f**k i am over this
jols. So a hard juggling everyones emotions but i'm glad both of you confronted her. Its so easy to forget about yourself.
We are feeling better. Ella's uclers have cleared. Her breath is back to normal and she's eating crunchy cereal for breakfast so her mouth must be ok. She had almost a whole pear today! she can and asked me for it and she went to her high chair. So i got it and is ate it all!
Decide we'll tell the family after the dating scan this friday. Then we can be sure of the due date and at least see the heartbeat. Feeling OK these days cant wait to see the blimp on Fri.
Jols I'm sorry, been away most of today & this is the second time I've checked this thread. I'm glad she understands, and I hope she is able to soften things with FIL. I didn't have the best relationship with my FIL. Often times I had to stay firm, for example, I refused to leave the room to breastfeed Matilda.... in my house, 4 days after she's been home from hospital after a c/s. He was horribly offended & didn't speak with me the entire visit... until we went to visit 11 months later. Apparently I was horribly disrespectful having the baby blues, and having to breastfeed.... obviously an offence against him. So you are not along in this mate.
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