Hi

Its good to know Im not the only one going through or has gone through this.

Zander does the intentional hurting himself sometimes....if he is near a wall when I say he cant have something he will just head butt the wall and if I say stop you will get a sore head he does it again...he is definitely strong willed.

He is also throwing things and hurting Wyatt. If there is an object in reach and he wants what he cant have he will just throw the object..whatever it is eg remote control,cup,fork and it will go flying. He intentionally rams his toys(big firetruck) into Wyatt and the other day he ran over the top of Wyatt in his peddle car, I heard Wyatt screaming and I went into the bedroom and he was sitting on top of wyatt who was face and head down. We put him straight into his bed when he is naughty till he calms down...we have put a nice mattress and pillow inside a portacot - its not as long as a normal cot but the sides are higher and its wider and he cant get out.......I am going to attempt the big boy bed in the new year.

Does he understand that he can hurt at this age????? or does he think its funny???