OM - i had all 4 of mine out at the same time! i went under to get them out and i will be honest with u it was not at all nice! however DH had the same done and he was fine!!!
I Hope all goes well with yours!

Didi - wow i also know what that is like - my ex was highly abusive, physically and verbally - it has been awhile since i have seen him thank god - but i remember the last time i ran into him all too clearly! so big hugs to you!
Good thing u look better than him tho! hehehe

Hollye - glad u got ur little girl back!!!