Babies Born October 16th ~ 31st 2009

[Rach75]

needles weren't to bad, i had to sign a form as i didn't want the rota virus one god you'd think the nurse had never had anyone object before nosey biddy....any way luke is 6 kgs 57cm long and a HC of 40cm he is just over 50% for HC and length and almost of the scales for weight

Fi good luck for this arvie

Kass good luck for tomorrow

gotta say am loving all the new ticker pics I need to do a new one too ... hmmm

everyone else

[ElleJay]

Kass - Nope, his are tomorrow as well.. Am not looking forward to it at all! DH took the day off work so he can take him in.. I just can't bear to watch!

[Stevie]

Hello ladies
Fi: heres hoping the needles go well, i cried more then Miss A did, it really upset me, next time i will be strong

Kass, im good now kinda we still have ALOT of work to do to make this better, but im willing to do the hard yards, we had a bg fight on our anniversary because i was soo angry at him from the fight we had the night before (he called me some very nasty names and said some very hurtful things) that i didnt and wouldnt talk to him all day, then he got ****y at me coz i wouldnt talk to him on our anniversary, i admit i did the wrong thing, sometimes i do things without thinking of the consiquences (sp?) lol
My local baby health clinic called me today asking if id got the letter to join mothers group, i told her i hadnt but i would be there i dont care what DH says, who knows i might even meet some great people i dont have too many friends outside of work and now that i dont work there i dont see any of them.. surprised? haha
anyway it starts on the 12th of jan, so im really looking forward to it, like tyou said Kass, its a def day trip out once a week, i yearn for adult interaction somedays LOL. i really do miss working, but i love being with Ali more

wow rach75, 6kgs? thats awsome Miss A is only 4.5kgs, i thought she was tiny til i look at Evangeline, she is such a little doll

anyway must be off, bbl
xxx

[Kazmar]

Aw stevie you have made me so happy for you! If he wants a happy wife and baby then you need to meet other mums and bubs Plus its great for Miss A to get out and grow with other bubs

[fi1980]

Thanks girls, needles went well. Leila cried for a few seconds when she was being jabbed but settled down as soon as she got a big loving cuddle from her mummy. I fed her straight away as well and she fell asleep on the boob! So it certainly didn't cause her too much distress, thank goodness. I did really well too, was hard when she started screaming but thankfully that didn't last too long. Let's hope the next round go just as smoothly. Oh and hubby & I got jabbed with whooping cough injections too. Apparently WC is why they want to immunise babies at 6 weeks now instead of 8 weeks.

Stevie love the new pic of Miss A Sorry to hear that you & DH had a fight on your anniversary. Hubby needs to stop being such a meanie! Seriously, some fighting/arguing is normal and healthy in a relationship but you need to fight fair and him saying really nasty things to you is not fighting fair. I'm not surprised that you are holding on to these things. My DH gets like that sometimes, not so much anymore but we went through a phase where he couldn't control his temper and every time we fought he would say really mean, hurtful things to me and I was like you, I would hold on to it because it was so hurtful. He would be over it but I would still be hurt, angry and frustrated by the things he said and so we would end up fighting again It sounds silly but when he was calm (I tried when he wasn't calm and got nowehere!) I had to explain to him how hurtful he was being and how he needed to learn to vent his frustrations without making personal attacks on me. He didn't get it at first but after me drumming it in several times he finally saw the light. You cannot maintain the relationship if it continues in such a way and you need to stop blaming yourself and thinking you are in the wrong. You are doing a wonderful job of raising your gorgeous little girl and being a loving wife, sounds to me like you are doing all of the right things and making a huge effort to sort things out, now it's time for DH to come to the party

Good luck DM and LJ for your little ones tomorrow!

Hi to everyone else

Fi

[fi1980]

oh and woo hoo on the mothers group!

[Rach75]

ahhhh I have had to give Luke panadol he is so upset and not happy or himself at all, so am putting it down to the needles, so first dose of medicine a 7 weeks 4 days

[fi1980]

Yep I just gave my little girl a dose of panadol too

[Kazmar]

Ldies try using a brand called, Braun. Its a more natural approch to pain relief if you really dont want to give panadol

Im ****ting myself about them tomorrow I cry if my girls do...

[Rach75]

I normally dont give anything if I can avoid it DM, even natural products excpet infants friend, but he was really distressed and as I live in a nothing town panadol was all I had , but I will google that and see what it is thanks

fi sorry Leila seems the same its not fun hey

good luck tomorrow LJ and DM

[boomba]

To everyone who had needles today..we dont get ours till 8 weeks so a few weeks yet!

I will bbl for personals i better go sleep! xxxx

[Stevie]

fi: Thanks i know i need to bring things up when he;s in a good mood, but i dont want to start anything so i leave it. but e will be having a long talk when he gets home on thursday.
Fi and Rach75 big to you and yours, i gave Miss A some panadol before i took her, next time i will def feed while getting it done, she was a bit stroppy for 2 days after but all good now
and Good luck to Kass, and im sure there was someone else having some done tomorrow...

Yeh DH and i will be getting our WC injections when he comes home, tho i got WC early on in my pg (and i must say it is the worst thing i have experienced in my life, id give birth 3 times over before id do that again) the nurse is still pretty sure i should get the injection, but i will check with the Dr first obviously.

ANyway must be off,
talk soon
xx

[Stevie]

Give me strength guys, im having a really rough day already..
i wont go into. but geez i just wanna curl up somewhere and dissapear

xxx

[boomba]

Oh Stevie please vent here it will probably make you feel better! Wish I lived closer I could come give a real hug! We will ahve to organise a meet up xx

[Kazmar]

Give me strength guys, im having a really rough day already..
i wont go into. but geez i just wanna curl up somewhere and dissapear

xxx

Do you want to chat on msn?

[Stevie]

thanks guys
DM i dont have msn, but we just really need to sort things out first.
but the way its looking at the moment it seems we may be having a break.
i promise when im not feeling so down i will vent here (its the only place i feel that i can be truelly honest anyway )
i just need time...

[fi1980]

Stevie it must be such a difficult time for you. You know that we are all thinking of you and will do anything we can to try and make you feel better. Having a break is not the end of the world and may in fact do you both some good as you will both have the opportunity to reflect on the situation, often in the thick of things you don't get this opportunity. Do what you need to do hun. Look after yourself and your precious little girl

[Rach75]

stevie