Hear hear - you are NOT a bad mum! Neither of you are! And Infacol is truly the best thing on this sweet earth. It may be that I have lost my sense of perspective... but honestly it is SO worth trying it if your sweet child suddenly turns into a grizzling nightmare. Or if your grizzling unsettled nightmare of a sweet child has always been unsettled. Or if you want to. Ok I'm waffling now. Must go wrap some more pressies

I have this sudden urge to be watching Anne... Amy that's your influence