csab: I've given up on expressing because I was the same as you, it took too long then Jude would want to be fed and I'd be drained. That was $90 down the drain (the pump) although I needed it at the time to relieve my mastitis. Whenever needed Jude takes formula from a bottle without hassle and it's nice for my husband to be able to enjoy feeding him from time to time. I have no qualms about going out and leaving Jude with my hubby knowing he can easily be fed anytime. It's quite relaxing to go out, I enjoy it.

Tanya: I keep thinking your asterisks are inverted commas as if to say "itsme, aka tanya". I'm so happy for you that you had a trouble free 3 hours of shopping yesterday, what a relief that must have been!!! I totally understand!

Georgi: Byron is thriving. I don't think I've ever heard of a premature baby that has done as well as Byron. You're in an interesting position because he's actually further advanced than the 8-week adjusted age. The fact that he can roll to one side puts him developmentally ahead of our bubs (I think) and he's quite a big boy now. He's a wonder child!

Belfie: I can almost always get my posts back by using the back button (or press the backspace button, or alt+left arrow). I often copy my entire just before I hit Submit as well.

Teruteru: rub some boob milk over the crack and allow it to air dry. Let your boob roam free while you sleep at night, it will heal itself. I had cracked nipples at first and I just used boob milk. Also, don't wash your nipples with any soap.

Jude gave me a beautiful gift last night. I fed him at 8.30pm and he slept until 4.45am. I'm not expecting it again, but just 1 night's sleep was all I was asking for, and I finally got it. Although I'm still incredibly tired.

He's been sleeping well today, too. I moved the fan in his room so it blows down on him in his bassinet. He likes the moving air. His bouncer is going ok, too. I think it's really helping to settle his tummy after a feed. I've tried Infacol but I don't think he really has wind, he doesn't burp much (but he does fart).

I want to pop Jude in the stroller and go for a walk but it's sooooooooooo hot outside and he hates hates hates the heat, so he's happier in his bed with the fan right now, but, boy am I bored.