katones - I hope Jack is feeling better soon! Yeah I was annoyed at the bride to be's comments. But I want to go to this wedding because the groom is a good friend of mine and my DH is the best man. Also, normally I really like the bride to be but she's become obsessed about her wedding being perfect and she has no concept of what babies are like.

amy - Good to hear from you.

PP - Yeah the bride is so worried about babies and children ruining her wedding that she basically said people couldn't bring their children. Maya will the only child there. We had a few children at our wedding and I don't even remember if any of them cried or not?!

Sami - I can't wait till the bride has a baby of her own. She's actually decided that having Maya there will be a good thing now.. because she'll look good in photos!

The last few nights I've had to get up during the night again to feed Maya but I have put her straight back down (without any rocking) after the feed and she's 'talked' for a bit then gone to sleep!!! Here's hoping she's learning to settle herself now!!