Amanda - I get so many people being gobsmacked when I tell them I have 5, then they go how do you handle that, you must be some sort of super mum. I believe they are actually thinking your just plain crazy. I have had some say, how they would have loved a large family and congratulate me, but mostly I end up with, so thats it yes!!!!! I shouls for fun say, nahhhh thinking of having some more!!!!! You would swear they were the ones raising the kids for us the way some of them react. So glad I am not the only one that feels that way. Sorry your mum didnt remember Wyatts b'day, I bet he felt that.