I know, it is sooo frustrating ! One of the (many) lessons I learned from K (oh the lessons...) is that consistancy is the key. Choose a strategy and stick with it. If you choose to be firm with him and settle him in another way, then keep it up each night so that he gets the message. Myles is a smart little cookie, so if you aren't consistant the next night, he'll try it again . It will take a lot of perseverence from you, but it will pay off. What feels like an eternity while you're in the midst of it, may only take a few nights. And when it starts working you will be so glad you stuck it out.

It's such a shame that your DH can't take him like you said so Myles doesn't have access to you. Does he have to leave at midnight? I guess he would in his line of work. You are doing a great job, tired mummy. You will get through this and you aren't alone, we are here to support you, hug you (well, cyber hug ) and cheer you on .