Thank you all, just really poopey this keeps happening. 5wks is easier to deal with emotionally than 16wks holding a wee bub, but it's still hard. Taking Ryan to the dr tonight for what looks like a sinus infection will see if I can steal their time and ask what is the common causes for recurrent m/c and what steps we need to take... grumble hiss grr
Hi girls, I am back but just no time to post. Just a quickie now as I need to get dinner cooked. Trip to Mt G was good, although Mia was a brat the whole time and starting chucking some major tantrums. Tay was also in bad form until Bruno got there Friday night. She really does not cope when he is away! I am so happy to be home though, nothing like home and your own bed and space!
Celtic - I am so sorry to hear about your loss of another angel baby. A close friend of mine lost a bub at 20 weeks and then fell pregnant again only to lose it at 8. It is just not fair and there are no answers. You just need to keep faith that good things will happen for you next time. We all will hope and that this is the case for you. Big hugs x
Mo - I think it has been the week for naughty kids. Everyone I have spoken to has said their little ones have been really naughty and unusually so! Hopefully playgroup tomorrow we might get some happy kids!
I will come back and post more. As I said trying to get dinner organised. Really could have a day off from cooking today, but considering we are just home from being away for almost a week I need to make the effort!
Belated happy 2nd birthday to Rhys and a Happy 2nd birthday for Chelsea.
Willow - love the new av. Dragon - stop lurking and come and say hello more often. Can understand tho how busy it can get. Celtic - hope you can get some answers. Julia - how did the scan go?
Back pain is easing but now I am lop-sided which is a bit of a worry. Off to the physio on Saturday and hopefully they can put me upright again.
Anyway the boys are home so need to get dinner finalised.
Happy Birthday gorgeous bubalugs!! I remember when we were all in the Bellybuddy forums, seems only a few months ago not over 2 years ago .
Saffi good luck Saturday, hope they can pop you back in to place .
After Wednesday am going to see the dr, had a talk to her while Ryan allowed and she wants my HcG back and then will do a bunch of blood tests etc and if they all come back ok will give me a referal to a specialist, if not then they will deal with what's wrong with the blood work. She was really lovely gave me a hug and wants to take Ryan home. He said goodbye, waved, shook her hand and blew her a kiss before we left, so funny
STRESSING...My B-hCG has nearly doubled in the last 1 1/2 days, they are saying I'm most likely ectopic, ultrasound and blood test tomorrow followed by surgery
Got to love mates who tell you all the gorey stories about people near dying, I don't want to die ....
Oh Celtic , I'm so sorry you are going through this right now. I've had an ectopic pregnancy and just wanted to reassure you that I was fine . These days they can get onto it quickly before complications occur. I'll be thinking of you and praying for you tomorrow, take care .
Can anyone say spam bot much? Hmm someone deleted the post between me typing and them posting, yay!!
Thank you for the reassurance Trish, I called and had a panic to the midwife, she was a lot more of a realist the dr was sort of worse-case-senario DEATH, AGONY, DIER CIRCUMSTANCES, midwife reassured me I had a lot of time between pain and death and to come up straight away if I had any pain at all. Also stressing over more surgery after they bunged up after Dylan and I ended up nearly dying... so if the ectopic doesn't kill me the dr sure as hell might :S
Don't mind me I'm still in the melodramatic woe-es-me inital panic stage, soon it will be replaced with pessimism hehehe jks
Lauren - you're really having a tough time of it. As difficult as it is not to try not too stress.
L, Immi and I went to a 2nd birthday party this afternoon for a boy that was in my old MG. It was so good to see how they have grown up from little bubs to active toddlers. Getting excited now about L's party next week.
OMG Lauren....ouchies! Hope it all works out for the best....I'm loving the humour I'm reading between the lines in your post! You're staying rather up-beat considering the circumstances! GOOD LUCK!
Anyone elses 2yo being a total TOTAL whinger at the moment!? I recall Kaz you complaining of this a little while back....OMG I want to curl up in a ball and rock all day ATM!
Hope everyone is going well
Happy Birthday to Chelsea & Rhys for a couple of days ago too x
Am off to the ob today...maybe for the last time fingers crossed. Just want bubs out so I can see what it is and so the leg and groin pain stops its really yuck!
Oh dont get me started on whingy kids...M cracks it at the smallest things I know he is learning but its soo tough too.
Lauren - So sorry to hear what you're going through . Have you had u/sounds to confirm the ectopic? If they catch it early enough, they can try injecting a drug into the tube to remove the prg (sorry, there's really no nice way to put that ). Can't remember the name of the drug but it's used in cancer treatment I think. I hope all goes well and your physical recovery is smooth sailing.
Happy belated bday to Rhys and Caden, hope they had a fun day
I'm so tired today...DS2 has been waking more often for feeds overnight hte last two nights. Not sure if it's a growth spurt or because of the heat (we've had 2 days of 35 here) but I hope he resumes his normal pattern! Funny how a 'bad night' with him was a normal night with L!
sorry i been mia but just trying to get some sort of routine started. I am getting 5-6 hours out of Harri between feeds so I am happy and he is a fast feeder too. He has his 1 month check up this week so it will be interesting too see what he has put on. He is still in 0000's, Rhys never fitting 0000, he was already in 00's by this age.
Happy birthday to all the bubs I have missed.
Good luck to Amber, hopefully nudge arrives soon for you. My SIL is due the 5th of Nov so we are waiting for her to pop also.
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that this is the case for you. Big hugs x
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