Christie, sorry to hear about Ben not pulling his weight around the house/not understanding where you're coming from. DH is a bit like that too, especially given that I'm a SAHM so he's gotten himself into the misguided belief that he can sit on his butt whenever he's not at work. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you being that far along in your 2nd pregnancy. Now that I'm going back to work F/T (well it looks like it anyway), DH had better believe it's going to be a 50/50 share of jobs and doing things for Maddy. Hope that Ben starts to wake up to himself!

BTW - ladies....I'm going to be in Sydney on the 27th, I arrive at around lunchtime (by the time we get to the hotel and all) and I'm staying at the Novotel. Would anyone like to meet me for a coffee? I won't have Maddy with me (Westlife concerts are loud - Maddy would freak at all the screaming & cheering) as she's staying in Brisbane but I don't think we can check into the Novotel til around 2pm. It's a Tuesday btw.