Thanks my lovely support group, another very through scan revealed the same results as far as my little bubs kidney, so she will be without one at some point in the near future as it appears to be barely functioning already... she has wee in her bladder so the other is working great. Everything else looks good, her brain, heart and other organs are fine, so it is isolated to the one organ, so highly unlikely to be related to a syndrome. She does have a funny shaped head though lets hope she has some hair to hide it!!!! But nothing to worry about, my DD 4 years has a similar shaped although this one appears to be more prononuced, damn, just looks a bit smaller than average.. i guess better than bigger than average???
I am off to Monash for another scan and a meeting with the genetics dept to talk about what the issues might be as far as the one kidney goes and so we are in contact with a pead kidney surgeon if it comes to it. (very glad we had our amnio done there, instead of private now)
I am 5 months preg wooo hooo, and countigng the days down, just all so stressful and nothing enjoyable about this preg so far~!!!!! ( and to think last time I was stressed)

Erin, i would say the closer age gap suited me better, i guess I was still in baby/ nappy mode and not used to sleeping a full night...I have a bit of an issue with PND /depression/ panic and have coped very well... actually better than the inbetween times.. i think your friend is right it is one of thsoe things that perhaps it will never feel like the perfect time, I say throw caution to the wind. It will be a nice gap and Emily will be old enough to understand about a new baby in your tummy etc, they say some very cute things between 2-3years and embrassing!!!!

Sue, nice to see you yuck onthe sickness, we have been so lucky...me only got a cold this winter and the kids escaped everything???? lets hope it stays that way!!!!

Kerry, more teeth!!! wow he must have a huge mouthful now...I wish you could have that baby brother or sister for Matthew..but sometimes life just thwarts us, and after all my problems would not recommended waiting this late to do it....way tooooo stressful.

Wow Lauren congrats on baby news, I am so happy for you.. I must search for you to see how you are going???

Mel, how is it going for you, I might have to search you out as well!!

Lee doing a fantastic job, I can't wait to hear the news and am looking forward to joining you in the new baby stakes in the new year. Well Easter ish anyway, don't want her coming too early or anything.

Niamh, thanks so much for all your support, I am very glad to have it.

Hi to all of you, hope things are going well.