oh Pam so excited for you cant not wait to here, try not to worry about a rupture, happens very rarely and you will know something is not right. believe in your self and trust your body and good luck. yay
Sorry girls, nothing happened as yet!! bubs is quiet, but midwife (party pooper) reckons I lost the plug cause I had a S&S the day before and i won't go into labour?? strange thing to say when I am overdue anyway?? We will see, I am still hopeful. I feel I have some encourging signs, more plug coming away today, strong BH, bubs quiet, boobies tingly and best of all I feel more positive....if not I will go for my CS on the 6th I am ready to meet my girl.
I promise Kerry i will let you know as soon as I am in labour so you have a heads up and then when she gets here.
Thanks everyone if not before the latest date will be the 6th of April, sometime in the morning.
Hi Pam !!! It sounds to me like your girl is getting very ready to make her appearance - I predict you won't make the 6th! Good luck hun, have been checking on you, I really pray all goes well and your girl is strong and healthy, Lee xoxo
Pamh sounds really good did they check your cervix again any changes is it soft! keep up the EPO and sure soon you will have her in your arms either way
Girls need advice cant put it on facebook cause it's about a friend who is on it, but a good friend is in a very abusive relationship he has cheated on her and gave her clamyidia (sorry spelt that wrong) he slapped her when she found he cheated cause she went off on him, then she admitted that he punched her in the face in PUBLIC with his friends around and she did nothing. he swore he would not do it again, but lately in the past 8 months she has had to leave and go stay in a refuge for women. on Friday gone he flipped and wanted money off her (he lives with her but has no money so he lives off her any wages he gets he drinks or spends in casinos) he knew she had a lot as they are moving house and she had the deposit and first two weeks rent he threatened he would kill her and punch her and called her names .she ran out of her house and I helped her leave him she went to a refuge again. I got involved as I went round to her house with her and helped her pack stuff and we dropped her to the bus. I was to look at two houses for her today but she has text me saying she is coming home to him and she know she is a fool. I'm so angry, I helped her for nothing and got involved in what could potentially of been a dangerous situation. never mind the fact her children now think its normal for men to hit and call their girlfriends names.( her 9 year old said in the car my friend tom hits his girlfriend I told him to stop cause she would leave him!!!!!!)
So now I don't know what to say or do for her, I feel I should say as Little as possible now as it would be anger talking and who am I to judge...
sorry about the rant I'm just so upset for her I was so worried he would hurt her on Friday.
More plug, more loose bowel (sorry TMI) no labour!!!! so my CS date with destiny is looming... I figure I have 28 hours up my sleeve and then I am at the point of no return... Can someone please remind me this is real?? it feels like it has happened way to fast and some kind of freaky dream, except I look at my tummy and there is no denying that a baby is going to pop out any minute.
How can I be in so much denial??? I hope I don't get PND..I just can't imagine holding a newborn again. i kind of know she looks like DD 4years old,but I still can't imagine how that looks or feels, there is no way DH is leaving my side at least for the first night...someone else has to take turns at holding her, just in case I am too freaked out!!!????
Anyway thanks for being such a great support network through my rollercoaster ride, i hope I will be back tomorrow night (most likely will to keep occupied, no point in going to bed too early??) if not CS is scheduled for 8.30am should have bubs by 9.30am, will let Kerry know A.S.A.P> so look for a BA late morn or early arvo..assuming all is well and i feel okay.
(((((((((((((HUGS...xxxx Pam, family and our impending arrival bubba girl)))))))))))))))))))
wow Pam, I bet it does all feel very surreal to you.. wishing you all the best of luck with the birth. Hope you and bubba girl are home safe and sound asap. Take care xxx
Pam, I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now. But I am so very excited for you! Here you are, you are going to have another little one to cherish and love in a matter of hours, a little miracle. You are doing so well, even though a CS is not what you'd hoped, the little girl you will soon be snuggling to your breast will be everything you dreamed. I think you're amazing and so blessed. And I feel lucky that even though I won't be having another little one that I've been able to share some of your journey through your BB posts. I wish you last minute labour vibes, an uneventful delivery (however it happens!) and swift hospital recovery. Much love to you!!
Pam I can only imagine what you are feeling right now. Not long now til you meet your precious little girl.
I have been stalking BB all weekend to see if bub has arrived. Looking forward to seeng your BA.
Big hugs Pam!! Thanks for sharing your journey with us. So glad u stayed around here to do so. I wish u all the best for the next few days what ever they bring. Can't wait to hear when bubs is here. And Pam being aware u may get pnd again is a positive thing so that if u (touch wood) get sick then you'll be able to get help early if that makes any sense. That's how I always thought about it anyway.
Oh best of luck Pam, I'm sure it feels mad the thoughts of starting all over again and another beautiful little girl to love. you be great don't worry thinking of you and cant wait to hear and see pictures xxxx
still have today Pam! I hope you are doing all the labour inducing things, walking, curry, raspberry leaf tea, sex sex and more sex LOL
Niamh I don't really have any good advice, but I have been there to some extent. Jamie left bruises on my arms, verbally abused me in front of the kids, and cheated on me. I kept going back to him. Eventually my friends stopped asking how things were. One friend who I cherish so much was so mad at me the last time. I don't think you can do anything, just support her when she needs it and let her know you ARE there to help if you can. It can be frustrating I am sure, but doing it alone is scary and makes us do stupid stuff.
I woke up eventually and now I am so much happier. Hopefully she will one day
Pam, thinking of you tonight and will definitely be thinking of you tomorrow morning. Huge hugs and lots of love. Wheeeeeeeee! Hope Mr Blackduckies takes lots of photos!
Pam - best of luck sweety for tomorrow (if you're not already in hossie now!!) - quietly stalking you for good news of your little baby girls safe arrival. I hope your emotions settle soon, will be keeping a look out for you hon. Love Lee xoxo
go Pam go, go Pam go.... wishing you all the best and I hope you get the birth that you want and your little princess is safe and well xx
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I can only imagine what you are feeling right now. Not long now til you meet your precious little girl.
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