Jodi.. thanks hun. Um yeh i always wanted 3. If i didnt have an epudural this labour i would be saying a big fat NO. It was the best thing ever! No pain, yet still felt the urge to push feeling. So yeh next time ill be asking for one of those straight off the bat when it starts getting bad. Hope your flu is on the way out!

Shell.. oh i hope so for you hun. I dont hear many cases that the second is longer.. typical for me though! I was the same after Jesse's. Only reason i had another was because i couldnt remember it that well! But hun, worse comes to worse, have an epidural! Oh i wish i knew how good they were with Jesse's labour! Im so so glad i had it this time. But you will be fine im sure! No one is a bigger wuss than me

Meg.. aww dear poor J. I hope he starts to pick up now.

Caddie.. oh hun i havent gotten around to trying it. I saw it in her draw today while she was sleeping and thought i must just do that! Will let you know tomorrow.. but i think it should be fine, she has a pretty small head Thanks hun.