Shell - Re KK thing, I think $20 inc postage is fine. As for finding a playgroup or something, Im thinking about it. I know a group of girls up here (civilians and military spouses) who meet up regularly so hopefully thatll work out. All my experiences with groups of women have been pretty poor soooooo I tend to stear clear of them and look for a 3 or 4 friends.

Jodes - if I can talk Ry into 3 kids you could certainly do it to Heath lol

I agree with never saying never on how many kids youll have. As a teen I wanted 5. When I was TTC Jett it was 2. While pregnant with Ripley it was DONE DONE DONE. Now look at me Id have another one if Ryan would let me but he is 110% adamant that 3 is it. And I think its a sensible decision for our family.

Thinking of going to TAFE or Uni to start my nursing studies. Can always take bub along with me after s/he is born. Stressing trying to figure out if theyll take me or not with my 6yr old HSC quals.